Baked eggplant, figs & goat cheese... & the meaning of sharing

French Foodie Baby
Tue, 13 Aug 2013 06:02:50 +0000
I've made this analogy here before, but I often think of parenting as blindly planting wild seeds in a garden, and waiting to see how and when they will grow into something. I don't think we teach our children so much as we are their model. The seeds contain all the complexity of our behavior,demeanor, focus and interests as parents. We can't just will the fruit into being. We must plant, nurture and patiently wait.  When it comes, the fruit is all the sweeter.  And such a precious fruit is ripening within Pablo right now. Pablo has started to share food. I mean that at every meal or picnic, he makes a point of taking some of the food in the main serving platter, and makes sure that everyone is served. He wants to give a piece of the  pie gratin, or salad, or cheese, as the case may be, to each person at the table. He does this as a task of importance and seriousness. I am really of the mind that there's no such thing as teaching sharing, and that making children share (especially infants and toddlers) teaches them absolutely nothing (except that sharing is an annoying but apparently necessary part of life). Sharing is sharing only if it's completely spontaneous and voluntary, if it comes from the heart. The art of sharing is truly one of those fruits that grow unexpectedly, when you model it and let it happen naturally. Unexpectedly indeed, for I hadn't realized, that each time we sat down together at the table to share a meal, every time we shared the same dish we all ate, every time I offered Pablo to taste something from my plate at a restaurant, every time we cooked for the whole family, we were unconsciously modeling sharing. And Pablo assimilated it in this intrinsic way, so that it seems completely natural to him that everyone at the table should get their share so we can all eat together.  I guess my point is this: a child will learn so much more about the real meaning of sharing by having a home cooked family meal, than by being forced to share his most prized possession.  And with or without children, sharing a home-cooked meal with loved ones is such a deeply communal and connective experience. It is an active act of sharing and togetherness (no wonder Michael Pollan says "the family meal is the nursery of democracy".) I keep talking about life lessons at the table and in the kitchen. And wow, these lessons just keep appearing before my eyes, yielding my amazement and gratitude.  I came across this incredible photograph on Pinterest, and clicked to seek the recipe, but alas, this beautifully photographed blog is in Polish and I couldn't track down the eggplant recipe. So I improvised my own version, with goat cheese of course, given that I am continuing my Summer Goat Cheese Series with Vermont Creamery.  This is one of those very seasonal, extremely easy, delicious melt-in-your-mouth recipes with all the flavors of late summer. I hope you will enjoy sharing it with people you cherish. Oh, and since we're in a sharing kind of mood here :-), below the recipe is our weekly menu. Hope it can spark some ideas for your family. Baked eggplant, with figs, cherry tomatoes & goat cheese Inspired by a Pinterest photo from this beautiful Polish blog Serves 2-3 Prep time: 10 min Cook time: 35-40 min Age for babies: 10-12 months (though simple roasted eggplant with some goat cheese could be given from about 8 months) 1 eggplant Olive oil 1/2 cup cherry tomatoes 8 small figs Aged goat cheese - I used half a Cremont from Vermont Creamery (You could also use crumbled fresh goat cheese here.) Pepper Preheat the oven at 400°F. Wash the eggplant, cut off the top, and slice lengthwise. Make incisions through the flesh but not the skin with a knife (three in each direction). Brush with olive oil. Place in baking pan on parchment paper, flesh side down (skin up). Bake for about 20-25 min. The skin will start to shrivel a little. In the meantime, wash and half the figs and tomatoes. Take the eggplant out of the oven, and set your oven to broiler. Turn the eggplant halves over, place the figs and tomatoes on top. Place pieces of the goat cheese on top.  Sprinkle with fresh ground pepper. Place in the broiler for about 10-12 min, until the cheese is melted and golden. Serve while hot! Bon appétit! On to the week's menu: Cheeses of the week: Following French tradition, I always offer a little bit of cheese at the end of every meal, between the main course and dessert. Rotation this week: Danish blue cheese, Port Salut (cow cheese), goat brie and Petit Basque (sheep). Desserts: At lunch, I offer a fruit yogurt (or plain yogurt with fresh fruit), but at night, I prefer sticking to plain yogurt (regular homemade* whole milk, sheep’s milk, goat's milk and Greek yogurt for extra protein) to avoid too much sugar before bedtime. If you would like a particular recipe on the menu, feel free to contact me! (I marked with a * the recipes that will be the topic of upcoming posts). MONDAY Lunch - Picnic at the park Cucumber, hearts of palm, cherry tomatoes, cold chicken, avocado, goat cheese, grapes and cherries Goûter (4pm snack) – Mango Dinner Appetizer / Finger Foods: Baked eggplant with figs and goat cheese (above!) Main course: Oven roasted pork tenderloin in mustard sauce, with blue potatoes TUESDAY Lunch - Picnic at the park again Green beans, cauliflower, blue potato salad + roast beef + Babybel cheese, plums & cherries Goûter - Peach Dinner Appetizer / Finger Foods: Authentic Greek salad Main course: Duck breasts with braised radishes and cherries* WEDNESDAY Lunch at the park  Cold pea & herb salad, cherry tomatoes, ham, goat gouda, nectarine Goûter – Nectarine Dinner Appetizer / Finger Foods: French radishes with salt & butter Main course: Quails eggs en cocotte with smoked salmon, leek and zucchini from La Tartine Gourmande (this was so spectacular I can't wait to make it again!) THURSDAY Lunch Appetizer / Finger Foods: Grated carrots with orange juice dressing Main course: Mushroom caps stuffed with cream of sardines Goûter - Passion fruit Dinner Appetizer / Finger Foods: Golden beet warm goat cheese salad Main course: Pan-fried creamy turkey breasts with summer vegetables in parchment from Just One Cookbook FRIDAY Lunch Appetizer / Finger Foods: Green asparagus with vinaigrette Main course: Sauteed shrimp with lime and coconut quinoa Goûter - Peach Dinner  Appetizer / Finger Foods: Cucumber salad with creamy yogurt tarragon dressing Main course: Trying this tomato cobbler from Food Loves Writing, soft boiled egg SATURDAY Lunch Appetizer / Finger Foods: Tomato, basil & onion salad Main course: Steak tartare, butter lettuce with fresh herbs Goûter - Plum Dinner Appetizer / Finger Foods: Artichoke custard Main course: Clams in fennel shallot broth from Cannelle & Vanille SUNDAY Lunch OUT Goûter - Cherries Dinner Appetizer / Finger Foods: Corn coconut chowder Main course: Caramelized fennel, goat cheese, kale clafoutis (crustless quiche)
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